The two most common alternatives to divorce are annulment and separation . Rather than ending a marriage, an annulment treats the marriage as though it never existed in the first place. Some couples choose annulment for religious reasons or because they do not want to be divorced. Annulments are most common among couples that have not been married very long. This is because annulments are primarily concerned with absolving marriages built on deception or misrepresentation. For example, if one spouse lies about his or her age or fails to disclose a known inability to have children, an annulment may be granted.
Separation occurs when a couple chooses to live apart without getting divorced. There are several types of separation:
Trial separation when a couple is unsure as to whether or not they want to permanently separate, they may choose to undergo a trial separation. During this time, they live apart, but their assets and debts are still considered mutual.
Permanent separation in a permanent separation, the couple has already made a decision not to get back together. They are actively choosing to live apart. Therefore, any material gains and losses are the individual's rather than the couple's responsibility.
Legal separation when a couple decides to separate permanently, they may choose to become legally separated. This means that a court decides how property and possession are divided and makes decisions about child custody, child support , and alimony .
Couples who are unsure whether they should seek an annulment, separation, or divorce may want to consider consulting an experienced divorce attorney.